In order for you to deal with terrible disease called dementia and Alzheimer’s disease you have to care about them. You have to be there when they get confused or when they need you. It’s very hard to understand each way that they think. It’s better to just love and care for them. You might have to do things for them that are uncomfortable. You might have to fix a meal for them because they can’t cook anymore. The easiest thing to do is just care about them and how they feel. You can’t judge them it’s not their fault. They have a sickness that has taken over their being. As a family we just have to care for them through the good times and the bad and make sure they know that they are loved and cared for.